Why do you turn to porn?

We all have our own, individual, way of handling our emotions, or moments in our lives. One copes differently from the next person and this varies from one another. However, there are people who use porn as a coping mechanism. This may sound quite unusual since this was never part of a normal person’s methods of coping. You will also surely end up rationalizing your predicament to make it sound lighter. But you need to look deeper into the situation and find out the exact root of the problem. Once you find the reason then you can easily draw out a plan of approach to find the conclusion or the answer to solve your problem. You might have been rejected at one point in life and found porn as a means of handling the situation, but in reality it’s an escape from the problem.

A traumatizing experience may have led you to this problem. Hence, the direction you took is completely the opposite of what you should have taken. There are people who are depressed and find relief with the use of porn. But do you really think that this is the solution for such a problem? You have other ways of successfully getting through without sacrificing more than what has been already taken away from you. There is this sprinkle of satisfaction and relief behind the experience of having porn in one’s life, but this satisfaction turns to addiction and can be very destructive. If you look at the cycle, you can then ask yourself why you still do it despite knowing what lies ahead.

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